The cool girl bride aesthetic is all about exuding an effortlessly chic style and a charming persona. If you’re reading this, then I know you already check off both of those traits! 😉 So what’s the best way to plan a wedding that truly reflects your unique personal style? Every detail is a chance to infuse a bit more of your signature elegance into the celebration. One of the first choices you’ll make is to book a wedding venue. I know, it can be really hard to find a venue that isn’t too stuffy, but also not too bland. That’s why I’ve put together a list of ten of the most architecturally interesting and atmospheric wedding venues in the United States to fit your cool girl bride vibes. My list offers options for a variety of celebration sizes!
Oheka Castle: Cool Girl Bride Aesthetic Wedding Venue
Some of the most famous parties have taken place at the Oheka Castle in Huntington, New York. It’s only suitable that your epic wedding takes place here! Swifties might also recognize the sprawling historic mansion from the “Blank Space” music video. The lore for this place runs deep. With plenty of cozy alcoves and meandering gardens, there’s room for formally planned wedding elements and spontaneous romantic moments. This is the perfect choice for brides that like the old money aesthetic and the gorgeous formality of European estates.
Milwaukee Art Museum: Minimalist Cool Girl Aesthetic
Perhaps you favor a more modern wedding venue with airy spaces and plenty of natural light. The Milwaukee Art Museum wedding venue overlooks Lake Michigan and unique geometric gardens surround the buildings. Once the sun sets, wedding guests can admire the art in the galleries. With white marble floors and entire walls of windows, I can easily see this as the perfect backdrop for a fashion-forward and artistic couple.
Beaulieu Garden: California Cool Wedding Venue
A guide to cool girl wedding venues wouldn’t be complete without a couple California venues on the list! Beaulieu Garden is one of the oldest vineyards in the Napa Valley and boasts formal gardens, stone fountains, and colonnades of gorgeous trees. This venue is perfect for a Tuscan-inspired outdoor wedding celebration lit by twinkling lights. If you’re looking for an outdoor venue with old-world charm and a relaxing social atmosphere, this is great option. Let the generous wine pours fuel an evening of conversation and dancing!
Basilica Hudson: Historic Warehouse Wedding Venue
Perhaps you’re always on the cutting edge of music and looking for a wedding venue that can host the ultimate party into the wee hours of the morning. Basilica Hudson actually has no cut off time since the location doesn’t have a noise ordinance; a rare find nowadays! The 1880s factory is an industrial blank slate inside with room for a variety of floor plans. Arched ceilings provide many options for creative lighting. It’s close enough to NYC for all your friends to easily take the train upstate and versatile enough to host a memorable party.
Haiku Mill: Hawaii Wedding Venue
If you’re looking for a truly unique destination wedding venue, then Haiku Mill in Maui, Hawaii might fit the bill. The ruins of the former sugar mill peek through the lush tropical gardens. Like a secret castle in the jungle, the surroundings emit an Old World mystery that will transport you and your guests into another time. All of the greenery and enigmatic stones provide ample decor and would suit a neutral color palette with strategically placed mood lighting.
Cal-a-Vie: Cool Girl Resort Wedding
Cal-a-Vie Spa in Vista, California is the perfect wedding venue for the health conscious couple who wants to feel like they are lounging in the south of France. An all-inclusive buyout of the property for your wedding celebration includes daily spa treatments and a customized menu. A charming chapel, windmill, and manicured gardens set the stage for a relaxed, yet elegant soiree. Dress code: your finest linens! The setting is nostalgic, romantic, and soothing. After all, it-girls always take time for self-care and basking in the sunshine.
Dresser Mansion: Italian Inspired Wedding Venue
It’s no secret that I love historic wedding venues and the Dresser Mansion is another hidden 1920s gem in Tulsa, Oklahoma. The mansion was built in the style of Italian Renaissance architecture and boasts hand-stuccoed walls, oak flooring, and endlessly detailed rooms. Who says you have to travel all the way to Europe for Italian countryside vibes? Beautiful settings both indoors and outdoors favor an abundant celebration with towering charcuterie trays and champagne towers.
Amangiri: Desert Wedding Venue
Amangiri in Canyon Point, Utah is truly one of the most unique wedding venues I’ve seen. Situated on 900 acres of ancient desert landscape, this luxury retreat hosts many celebrity weddings and top tier events. The serene surroundings and tastefully modern architecture blend into a cohesive, original setting. If your wedding budget is endlessly abundant, you can make a weekend out of it and participate in all the related activities provided by their spa and camp.
George Peabody Library: Dark Academia
The George Peabody Library in Baltimore, Maryland is one of my absolute favorite library wedding venues in the United States. Stone columns and iron railings flank the shelves of literature that rise up towards a detailed skylight. The space is impressive, yet still intimate due to the warm design. The library sets the stage for an elegant and theatrical wedding celebration.
San Ysidro Ranch: Cool Girl Bride Wedding Venue
San Ysidro Ranch in Santa Barbara, California provides a cozy and scenic space for an elevated garden wedding. With historic cottages and floral archways, the little details set this wedding venue apart. You can choose from a variety of accommodations that suit your needs, so you can be on site for the entire wedding weekend. This is perfect for a whimsical wedding aesthetic that includes handwritten menus, poppy flower arrangements, and scalloped plates.
Cool Girl Bride Aesthetic Guide to Wedding Venues
I hope you found some wedding venue inspiration in this curated list. I tried to offer a variety of locations and styles to help you find what you’re looking for. I’m always researching wedding venues, so don’t hesitate to reach out to me for more ideas! You can also subscribe to my newsletter for helpful tips from a professional wedding planner.
